HOW TO OVERCOME PORNOGRAPHY

If you are addicted to pornography and you want to get rid of porn addiction. I suggest you first start by making a self-decision to sto...

If you are addicted to pornography and you want to get rid of porn addiction. I suggest you first start by making a self-decision to stop. Your will and determination can only make this a success. Here are some steps you could take:

WIPE IT ALL OUT: The first step is deleting all files out of your phones, laptops and throwing away all DVDs, deleting all histories of sites and channels then making a self-decision to change.

GETTING YOUR MIND AND SELF BUSY: Another big step in getting away from porn addiction is getting your occupied with something that makes you happy and gives you a sense of fulfillment or a new found love. Try out new habits of things that could make you better. Incase you don’t know what to do, here are a few things to try out: Reading a good book (no romance), writing, listening to music, praying or social networking. Just keep your mind busy to avoid being idle. Remember an idle mind is the devil’s workshop.

TELL A FRIEND: This is very delicate, but it works if you talk to the right person. “Friend” in this case, is not a playmate but someone who is more mature and more guarded to give the right advice. This will give you a boost and make your self-decision stronger to keep.

CONVERT THAT TIME AND PLACE FOR A DIFFERENT FUNCTION: Usually people watch porn in a particular place at a particular time. One major way of conquering this addiction is using that place and that time for something else. You could use the time and place for some prayer, work out, study or something more worthwhile.

GET RID OF THOSE FRIENDS: Some kinds of friends are not yours to keep anymore, as they may not be willing you for who you have now become. They may be the ones to tease you and try to lure you back to your old ways and don’t want to understand your new decision. In this case, it is best you get a new clique of friends. You could join a study group, a fellowship or an organization that would shape you positively.

LASTLY, EMPOWER YOUR MIND: Mental reconstruction is one of the best ways to overcome pornography. Keeping a positive mindset of wanting to be better and working towards it. Best ways to achieve this is by, attending empowering conferences, listening to inspirational messages and continually feeding your mind positively. With this you will be amazed of how intellectually sound and knowledgeable you have become.



Constantly following these steps, you will not only overcome pornography but look at the mirror and look into the mirror and be proud of the person you are gradually becoming.


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